Understanding the Military Lifestyle

Hello Friend, I’m Natalia.

While I may proudly identify as the founder of my military family, I am also a military wife trying to balance a family life with a career and support my husband and his unique career choice in the armed forces.

My husband and I have been together for over seven remarkable years. Together, we have three energetic children and two playful dogs—because, apparently, our lives weren’t chaotic enough already! 

This journey hasn’t always been easy. We’ve had to continuously adapt to the challenges that come with being a military family, especially dealing with the long and often unpredictable deployments that separate us for months.

These separations bring with them not only just logistical challenges, but also emotional struggles that can weigh heavily on our hearts.

One of the biggest challenges I’ve had to overcome is loneliness that often accompanies this Military lifestyle. Over time, I’ve learned to embrace the unique rhythms and demands of the military life, finding ways to create a sense of normal amidst the chaos.

It’s quite surprising how rarely you hear about the experiences of military families as a whole. While the struggles faced by military wives or the challenges encountered by serving soldiers and veterans are discussed, the broader family experience often goes unheard. It feels like an unspoken secret—a reality cloaked in stigma within the community.

Understanding the Military lifestyle is difficult

I remember vividly expressing my frustration to my husband: “No one gives you a handbook on this!” It made me realize that we are just expected to survive and navigate these complex waters alone. This thought stuck with me, reminiscent of what my primary school teachers used to say—once I have something in my mind, I will not let it go!

One day, while washing the dishes and pondering our situation, I turned to my husband and said, “Why don’t we create a handbook?” He looked at me as though I had lost my mind and asked, “What do you mean?” I explained my vision of creating resources where families could go to find the answers they desperately need.

I suggested, “What about a website?” Although a traditional handbook would have been ideal, we realized that we needed to be practical in today’s digital age.

we decided to build a website—a platform where we could share our experiences, tips, and tricks so that others wouldn’t have to struggle as we have. Honestly, if someone had handed me a guide on how to navigate the early stages of our military journey, it would have made life significantly easier.

As you scroll through my blogs, you might recognize with few and find a sense of comfort knowing you are not alone. 

We have many plans for our website and are genuinely hopeful that you will find our resources beneficial in easing your military family lifestyle.

Our goal is not only to offer practical support but also to showcase all that the military lifestyle has to offer, bringing to light the hidden gems and resources that often go unnoticed.

If you’re interested in learning more, stay tuned! Keep an eye out for my blogs, as they are the key to unlocking those hidden treasures within the military community!